HI, I’m Nicholas
I coach high-performers, ambitious leaders and entrepreneurs who feel stuck, overworked, or undervalued to break free from the grind and build lives aligned with their deepest values.
Lives rooted in freedom, purpose, and connection.
I didn’t arrive at this work by following a clear path.
I built it from the inside out.
I grew up in a blue-collar family in rural Pennsylvania, navigating instability and a turbulent home life that taught me early on how to survive by overworking, staying vigilant, and burning myself out, but not how to feel safe or thrive.
By my late teens, I was unhoused, living out of my car, deep in the late-’90s East Coast rave scene…self-medicating with whatever numbed the hurt.
Then came a few near-life experiences.
Some hard conversations.
A few close friends dying.
Witnessing 9/11 with my bare eyes.
Moments that cracked through the chaos and made me choose:
Keep disappearing and self sabotaging, or start rebuilding something new.
I chose the slow, painful road back to myself.
Over time, I earned degrees.
Launched my first business in my 20s.
Taught at top universities and colleges in New York.
Then I spent 13 years in big tech, leading global initiatives, mentoring top global talent, leading mindfulness programs and eventually…
Burning out under the weight of it all.
On paper, I had everything: The title, the house, the savings, the 401k, the healthcare, the reputation.
But underneath? I was unraveling.
Anxiety.
Sleep disorders.
Self medicating.
Chronic gut issues.
All signs of a misaligned life.
I had optimized for success, for safety, and for income… and lost connection with what actually mattered.
I wasn’t thriving. I was surviving, stuck in on autopilot wearing golden handcuffs that only I had the key to, if I could just find the courage to use it.
That’s when I realized I needed to learn to finally stop performing success…and start practicing alignment.
The Wake - Up Call
I know how easy it is to stay stuck in something that looks good from the outside.
Especially when the perks are just good enough to numb the pain.
The illusion of stability.
The pressure to perform.
The slow erosion of your inner life.
I chased the next milestone, convinced it would eventually feel different…but it never did.
and ultimately it never does.
My real turning point came when I finally stopped looking outward for validation and turned inward to ask:
What the hell am I really doing here?
What matters to me?
What version of myself do I need to let go of?
Those questions changed everything.
I got honest about what mattered.
Asked for help.
Got support.
Made a plan, and started reclaiming my life one rebellious choice at a time.
I made rebellion my practice, and now I help others do the same.
Why I Coach Other High Performers
The life I live today. One of connection, clarity, and commitment - once felt out of reach.
Back then, I believed success meant sacrifice.
That rest was a reward.
That fulfillment could wait.
Now I know better.
Today I live in Colorado with my wife and two cats, surrounded by the raw beauty of the Rockies. My days are spent in service, in nature, and in the rebellious act of choosing alignment over achievement for its own sake.
I’ve built a life where well-being isn’t a bonus…it’s the foundation.
And success…well success comes along for the ride.
If the life you long for feels distant, I’m here to help you find your way back to it. It’s a lot closer than you might think.
It is possible to get there, one rebellious choices at a time.
HEAR MORE ABOUT MY OWN JOURNEY
I’ve contributed to dozens of podcasts and articles, sharing hard-earned insights from over a decade of surviving (and thriving) in high-pressure environments.
I speak candidly about mental health, well-being, and conscious leadership, offering actionable advice and real world perspectives.
How We Can Work Together
Curious about what coaching with me is like?
Visit the Quiet Rebellion Coaching page for more information on packages.
If you’re not ready to jump in the deep end with me just yet, I invite you to join my growing community of over 16 thousand rebellious professionals on my Quiet Rebellion Dispatches mailing-list, Linkedin, and in the Quiet Rebellion Substack.